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yandje
10-04-2006, 04:06 PM
*this has nth to do with me, just wanted to bring it up though :D*


lets make this simple:


Ur friends likes a guy, but the guy doesnt like her and kinda dissed her ...
She told u about how mean the guy was ... and in ur mind u have an image of him la from wat ur friend told u.

But when u started to know the guy, he in fact isnt that mean that u thought he was wor.. and ur growing interest in him ...

my Q is: will u still go for him, or will consider how mean he was to ur friend and also think how ur friend will react n think of u if u get together with that guy so u stay away from him instead leh?
ruddie
10-04-2006, 04:09 PM
go for it laa gun hai
maybe he was mean to her for a reason... but ng mean to me mai duk lor haha
or shes just bias.. and ng like him for a reason too
Angeltwozero
10-04-2006, 05:15 PM
i would say go for the guy because doesnt reallie matter that she got a bad impression on the first go. but in the long run that u figure he isnt.. =]
shortii
10-04-2006, 06:11 PM
go for the guy lor..why not jeh..
your friends and your family arent the ones that determine who you spend your time and life with anyway..ji gei kuet ding!
baby8love
10-04-2006, 07:43 PM
i wouldn't actively pursue the guy cuz that would probably mess up your friendship with the girl but, i wouldn't necessarily avoid the guy either. if it's meant to be, then it'll happen no matter what.

and if the girl was a true friend, she'd let you be happy.

as for how you perceive the guy, you should make your own judgments. you weren't there when the guy "dissed" your friend. there are biases involved.
sharinerz
10-05-2006, 05:29 PM
nuh uh... i would stay away from the guy... never go for ur friend's crushes or exs... it's not right!! and well... my friend is more important to me then ne guy would ever be
LapSiLap
10-06-2006, 09:36 PM
never believe in what ppl say 100%.. go find it out urself.
so my answer is yes
Esquire
10-06-2006, 10:21 PM
You know what they say, love is blind! Maybe your friend sees something you don't.

Oh btw yand, dun bullshit me, this is you isn't it?!
airmoto
10-06-2006, 10:32 PM
if u seriously like that person... who gives the f**k wut other says
yandje
10-07-2006, 06:53 AM
You know what they say, love is blind! Maybe your friend sees something you don't.

Oh btw yand, dun bullshit me, this is you isn't it?!
:rofl: NO!!! its not me! :D
smiley
10-07-2006, 07:09 AM
OMG yandje.....................................
yandje
10-07-2006, 07:11 AM
OMG yandje.....................................
NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!
smiley
10-07-2006, 07:33 AM
NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG...are you talking about what i think you are???
yandje
10-07-2006, 08:16 AM
OMG...are you talking about what i think you are???
no i am not! ahahahh do wa jor "NOO!!!" la! and this has nth to do with me :D
....and im not even in the same groups as in the guy u think im talking about :lalala:
smiley
10-07-2006, 09:30 AM
no i am not! ahahahh do wa jor "NOO!!!" la! and this has nth to do with me :D
....and im not even in the same groups as in the guy u think im talking about :lalala:
i dont belive u.....ahhhhh....if it was will uu????
lilazncub
10-07-2006, 09:32 AM
no i am not! ahahahh do wa jor "NOO!!!" la! and this has nth to do with me :D
....and im not even in the same groups as in the guy u think im talking about :lalala:
LOL busted!!!!!! :laffing:
yandje
10-07-2006, 09:37 AM
i dont belive u.....ahhhhh....if it was will uu????
i dont even see that guy!! hahah :grr:

if it was wat? if i start to like a guy u dont like? hm.. then ill take days by days . i think i hv liked a guy u dont like havnt i? before.. im talking about.. hahah


@lilazz: NO busted!! ahahhaha she is thinking too much.. ekkeke stupid smiley
smiley
10-07-2006, 09:49 AM
i dont even see that guy!! hahah :grr:

if it was wat? if i start to like a guy u dont like? hm.. then ill take days by days . i think i hv liked a guy u dont like havnt i? before.. im talking about.. hahah


@lilazz: NO busted!! ahahhaha she is thinking too much.. ekkeke stupid smiley
hahaha...okioki...just asking jeh..even though i keep saying his mean and all..i have to say..i have never met any chinese that tall...=P

u have??whoo???i dont remember..OMG we sooo need to have girls night!!!!
yandje
10-07-2006, 11:49 AM
hahaha...okioki...just asking jeh..even though i keep saying his mean and all..i have to say..i have never met any chinese that tall...=P

u have??whoo???i dont remember..OMG we sooo need to have girls night!!!!
oohh really? hahah i saw him talking with an ugly girl at skool ... so maybe i should try? hahha ..stupid stupid.. :grr:

ya!! girls nite soon!! ho loi mo la :(
Esquire
10-07-2006, 12:02 PM
pretty sure it's yandj
smiley
10-09-2006, 01:03 AM
oohh really? hahah i saw him talking with an ugly girl at skool ... so maybe i should try? hahha ..stupid stupid.. :grr:

ya!! girls nite soon!! ho loi mo la :(
huh..talk to a ugly girl??woahh lei gum gah...

yes yes girls night...when???hey are we gonna shopping this saturday?
yandje
10-09-2006, 04:20 AM
pretty sure it's yandjya and u are the guy right sui por man? :D


huh..talk to a ugly girl??woahh lei gum gah...

yes yes girls night...when???hey are we gonna shopping this saturday?its true, she wasnt pretty. =X

oh i just went shopping hahha arm arm fan ley ... and too tired to goto skool now .. :fustrate: we can girls night this weekend?
smiley
10-09-2006, 05:49 AM
hahaha...girls night this weekend ah??hmm..sure why not..,i'll be reading anyway :D